Today, I’m going to talk to you about one of the five things you can do to ensure that your kids feel as important as they are: prioritizing and planning. One of the things I do every day is look at my schedule when I wake up and identify what is non-negotiable. The first priorities are my kids’ school and their after-school activities. Those are non-negotiables. Everything else, I work around them. Sometimes my husband isn’t here because he travels for his job, so I have to juggle even more. But I make sure to prioritize what’s non-negotiable and fit everything else around those commitments.
Additionally, setting aside a few minutes each night to review and plan for the next day can make a significant difference in creating a sense of order and calm. When you approach each day with intention, you’re better able to handle the unexpected and adapt to any last-minute changes. This practice doesn’t just benefit you—it also sets a positive example for your kids, teaching them the value of planning and prioritization. As they watch you manage responsibilities with care and purpose, they’ll learn to apply these same skills in their own lives.
Remember, it’s not about being perfect or having everything under control every day; it’s about making time for the people who matter most and building routines that honor those relationships. By centering your family as a priority and intentionally making space for them in your schedule, you create a foundation of love, security, and consistency. These small, daily actions communicate to your children that they are valued and important, which helps them develop confidence, resilience, and the understanding that they are loved unconditionally. This, after all, is the most meaningful gift you can give them—the assurance that they are not only a priority but also a cherished part of your life’s purpose.
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